Guest communications
Guest text messages
(EVER)LY designs and runs wedding websites for couples, including invitations, RSVPs and guest communications. As part of that paid service we send a small number of transactional text messages to our clients' invited guests. This page explains who sends them, how guests opt in, and how to stop them.
Last updated 1 October 2026
Who sends the messages
Messages are sent by (EVER)LY, a service of Terbium B.V., on behalf of the couple who invited you. Each message names the couple, so you always know which wedding it is about.
What we send
- Invitation and RSVP links, and requests for a mailing address for the printed invitation
- A reminder if a guest has not yet responded
- RSVP confirmations and practical updates about the event (times, venue changes)
- On the day, a link to share photos with the couple
Message frequency: up to 5 messages per event. No marketing, no promotions and no messages about anything other than the wedding you were invited to.
How guests opt in
We only text guests who have personally given their mobile number to the couple and agreed to receive these messages. The couple asks each guest directly, in person, by phone or in writing, when inviting them. Before the guest agrees, the couple reads or sends this disclosure:
“We use (EVER)LY to send our wedding texts. We'd like to text you a personal link for your invitation and RSVP, plus a few updates about the day: up to 5 messages in total. Message and data rates may apply. Reply HELP for help or STOP at any time to opt out. Details are at everlyarchive.com/sms. Is it okay to text you, and which number should we use?”
Only guests who say yes and confirm their number are added. The couple shares those numbers with (EVER)LY, and we record each guest's consent before the first message is sent. Guests who decline are never added. Numbers are never bought, rented, shared between clients or used for any other purpose.

Sample messages
Hi Kat! This is Hannah Armstrong & Matthew Giampetroni's wedding text number. We can't wait to celebrate with you!! :) Please add your mailing address to our wedding website so we can send your invitation: https://hannahandmatthew2027.com/g/… Reply STOP to opt out.
Hi Kat! Just a little reminder from Hannah & Matthew :) When you have a moment, please add your mailing address here so we can send your invitation: https://hannahandmatthew2027.com/g/… Reply STOP to opt out.
Hi Kat! Thank you for celebrating with Hannah & Matthew today. Share your photos from the day here: https://hannahandmatthew2027.com/camera/… Reply STOP to opt out.
Help and opting out
Reply STOP to any message to stop receiving texts; you will get one confirmation and nothing else. Reply START to opt back in. Reply HELP for help, or email hello@terbium.ai.
Message and data rates may apply. Carriers are not liable for delayed or undelivered messages.
Privacy
Mobile numbers and SMS consent are not shared with third parties or affiliates for marketing or promotional purposes. Read our privacy policy and terms.
(EVER)LY is a service of Terbium B.V., Prins Hendrikkade 21E, 1012TL Amsterdam, the Netherlands. Chamber of Commerce (KvK) 95714677, VAT NL867256084B01. Contact: hello@terbium.ai.